Thought of the Day #23, February 24, 2014: Self Worth vs. Self Expectations

            There are way too many born again Christians that have issues with their self-worth!  It amazes me just how many people go around evaluating their worthiness or lack thereof with other Christians that serve in the “church” (church in general that is).  Why is it that there are so many Christians, including those in ministry, that are constantly feeling that they are not meeting the expectations they have set for themselves?  Why is it that it matters more what self expectations have been met than what God expects?

            That is really the question that needs to be asked, not every now and then but, every single day when we spend time in prayer.  Prayer is essential to any Christian. “You must pray at all times as the Holy Spirit leads you to pray. Pray for the things that are needed. You must watch and keep on praying. Remember to pray for all Christians.” Ephesians 6:18 (NLV)  What we need to be asking God is if we are meeting His expectations.

            Part of the problem is that we are constantly bombarded with ads on television, internet, magazines, billboards, that convinces us that we’re not good enough but, if we use their product we will be good enough!  We then somehow bring these thoughts into our Christian walk.  We place way too much emphasis on trying to be “good enough” that we can’t meet our own expectations.  What is “good enough?”  These expectations aren’t usually attainable but yet we get upset when we do not meet them.  The more our expectations are not met the more our self worth seems to go down. 

            One of the things that I love about Jesus is that He is extremely clear.  One of the things that He is clear on is that He’s first.  All of this self worth business that is based on an over bloated self expectation is just plain foolish.  What we need to be concerned with is if we are meeting God’s expectation of us.  What we are to do first is to love him with everything we have first. “He answered, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’” Luke 10:27 (NIV)  Notice that the verse ends with “as yourself.” 

            We are to love others as we love ourselves.  All of this self worth business needs to be tied with how much God loves us.  “No, the Father himself loves you because you have loved me and have believed that I came from God.” John 16:27 (NIV)  “For the law was given through Moses, but God’s unfailing love and faithfulness came through Jesus Christ.” John 1:17 (NLT) “And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love.” Romans 8:38 (NLV)  So, the next time we start to measure our self worth we need to make sure that we measure it by how much God loves us instead of by what self expectations we have or have not met.

Thought of the Day: #22 "Forgiveness"

            There’s a great song by Toby Mac that’s entitled “Forgiveness.”  It has to do with how we are forgiven by Christ.  We love to sing about forgiveness.  We love to know that we’re forgiven by God.  We love to read verses in the Bible about God’s forgiveness.  What we don’t like so much is when it’s our turn to forgive others.

            Grant it forgiveness comes easier for some but, for others it does not.  I have experienced being forgiven by others and not being forgiven as well as forgiving others myself.  I have to admit, I have been tempted to not forgive, especially when what was done to me hurt me or someone that I love but, God was not pleased with that.  Conviction hit my heart; I turned to Scripture, asked God to help me forgive and then forgave.

            Its way too easy to forget that we are forgiven by God because of what His Son did on the cross for us!  We gladly accept God’s forgiveness but begrudgingly forgive others.  There’s a parable that Jesus taught about this very topic that can be found in Mathew 18:21-35.  The parable is about a man that owed, in our money today, about 10 million dollars to the king.  He begged the king to forgive his debt and the king forgave him! “The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go.” Matthew 18:27 (NIV) Do you know what this forgiven debtor dared to do?  There was someone that owed him money.  In fact, what was owed was about a day’s wages, a whole lot less than what he had owed the king.  Do you think he forgave the debt?

            Not only did he not forgive the debt, he threw the man in prison!  When the king that had forgiven him learned of this he became very angry.  “…‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to.  Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’ In anger his master turned him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed.’” Matthew 18:32-34

            We know that if we ask with all our heart to be forgiven by God we will, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” 1 John 1:9 (NIV) We need to forgive others as well. “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Colossians 3:13 (NIV) When we are faced with a need to forgive lets pray about it. God will give us the ability to forgive and the ability to let it go in our hearts. 

Just in case you’re curious about Toby Mac’s song here’s the link from You Tube: http://youtu.be/xfkhqpl81NA

 

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Thought of the Day #21: “Priorities” February 5, 2014

     Priorities: “somebody or something that is ranked highly in terms of importance or urgency.” Encarta ® World English Dictionary © & (P) 1998-2005 Microsoft Corporation. All rights reserved. The priorities that God has given to us: He is first, our spouses are second and then our children are third. It’s as simple as that, one, two, and three. The problem is that we like to put a lot of other things up in those three top priorities. We want to make time for everything and everyone. The problem is that no matter how hard we try if we do not keep our priorities in the right order we will have problems.
      Should we put anything or anyone in first place then our first priority, God, has now been moved to second. There is to be no one in that first priority as per our God. “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’” Mark 12:30 (NIV) “You shall have no other gods before me.” Exodus 20:2 (NIV)
      Should we put anything or anyone in second place then our second priority, our spouse, has now moved down to third. In Ephesians Chapter Five Paul goes through the priorities. The second place is the spouse. “However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.” Ephesians 5:33 (NIV) The spouse is the only person that we are to hold in that second place spot because, if we don’t we will be rocking the boat at home.
      Should we put anything or anyone in third place then our third priority, our children, has now moved down to fourth but wait, there is no top four! There are only three top priorities! Our children are given to us as a gift from God. We are God’s stewards for our children. How can we as a good steward not place and keep our children in the top three?
      Priorities are placed so that there can be order. When we keep things in the right order there is peace. This is the only way that we can be able to live a life as God intended us to. “I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.” Philippians 4:13 (NASB)

 

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Thought of the Day #20: “No Room for Pride”

            I think most Christians would agree that there is no room for pride in any relationship, whether it’s in your relationship with God, your spouse, your children, co-workers, or your neighbors.  As Christians we know God is first but, what’s in our minds isn’t always in agreement with what’s in our hearts.  We know if God is really first or not, that is if we dare admit the truth.

            The definition of pride is “a haughty attitude shown by somebody who believes, often unjustifiably, that he or she is better than others.” (Encarta ® World English Dictionary © & (P) 1998-2005 Microsoft Corporation. All rights reserved.)  How does God see pride?  The Bible is clear that pride is not alright with God.  “The fear of the Lord is to hate evil; Pride and arrogance and the evil way and the perverted mouth, I hate.” Proverbs 8:13 (NASB) “Everyone proud in heart is an abomination to the Lord; Though they join forces, none will go unpunished.” Proverbs 15:5 (NKJV)

            When pride is an issue then that means that you are first in all things, it is not Christ.  It means that everything you do is done with your pride, even how you serve the Lord.  As a follower of Christ there is no room for you at that first position in your life.  God is first.  The first four commandments state that God is first and they start with this statement from God, “I am God, your God” Exodus 20:1 (MSG).

            Pride is a heart issue.  “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.” 1 Corinthians 13:4 (NIV)  “Jesus said, ‘‘Love the Lord your God with all your passion and prayer and intelligence.’ This is the most important, the first on any list. But there is a second to set alongside it: ‘Love others as well as you love yourself.’ These two commands are pegs; everything in God’s Law and the Prophets hangs from them.” Mathew 22:27-40 (MSG) “Bless your enemies; no cursing under your breath. Laugh with your happy friends when they’re happy; share tears when they’re down. Get along with each other; don’t be stuck-up. Make friends with nobodies; don’t be the great somebody.” Romans 12:14-16 (MSG)  

            It is important, vitally important to line up our mind with our heart.  Know that God is first at all times in our minds.  Know that God is to also be first in our hearts.

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